What is Truly Important?

Just over 2 months ago a friend of mine lost her baby boy to a tragic swimming accident. My heart breaks for her and her family. She has 4 other kids, the ages of my kiddos. They are friends. I am sure because this hit so close to home, I have thought a lot about what is truly important.  For way too long, I have been in a stage of self-pity. Each day I felt it was fading but  had been waiting for the load to be taken away before I decided it was okay to be happy. I wasted time. My kids got bigger. I missed out. Those are days and minutes I can't ever get back, and for what, monetary issues that were out of my control! I have the important things right in front of me. Why does it take a tragedy for people to realize this?

I have the Gospel of Jesus Christ, The Plan of Happiness, the tools that some people look for everyday of their lives - I HAVE THESE TOOLS! Why do I take these or granted?? Ben and I have always said prayers with our children, but we have recently started reading the scriptures with them also. It has been amazing! As they are getting ready for bed, they ask how many we are going to read or what story are we hearing tonight. I love to see their excitement and love for the Book of Mormon grow each new day!

I have a husband that works so hard to better our family. He is an amazing husband and father and the kids love and respect him to the ends of the earth. He cooks, he cleans, he coaches soccer, he can even put Elliott's hair in pig tails!! I got super lucky with this one!

I have 3 beautiful, wonderful, energetic children!! They are so unique and loving. I hear "Mom, I love you" countless times throughout the day..I have learned to cherish these words because I know one day they will be "too cool" for mom. Boo!! We will always have our rough days that are filled with yelling and arguing, however, they are fewer than before! My kids are my life.

Pictures are important, videos will hold value one day! Life is precious and short. I will take the time to enjoy!